Children are flowers for society
These days parents are worrisome because of the increasing cases of child molestation and murders (in extreme cases) in the society. This nature of incidents leave devastating and lasting effects on children personality as well as mental being. Keeping in view this situational crisis we have gathered more than ten points to bring before you so it would (in shaa Allah) help parents to be able to protect their loved ones.
1. Teach your children, especially Female child to Never (never – ever) sit on anyone’s laps including family uncles and after certain age parents should take care of this matter so to save children from awkwardness.
2. Parents and elder siblings should avoid getting dressed in front of the child present in the house once the baby is 2 years old.
3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’
4. Try to keep your underage children inside the house and provide them with all necessary sports accessories to play with however, if you allow them then whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do and who are his / her friends.
5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.
6. Keenly notice any sudden change in your children behavior, once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn. Then as parent you should need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child and give him / her sense of protection.
7. Wisely educate your grownups about the right values of intercourse, its correct age and way. If you don’t, the society will teach them with wrong values.
8. It is always advisable for parents to go through any new material like cartoons, movies, toys or any such things you just bought for them before they start seeing / using those themselves.
9. If parents have an independent Television then they should ensure to activate parental controls on and provide this facility in your presence always. If you are leaving your children with his / her friends to enjoy the TV then you should also keep a constant check on kids from time to time.
10. Parents should teach their 2.5 – 3 years old how to wash their private body parts properly and counsel them to never allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you.
11. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).
12. Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it.